We began our journey of TTC in April 2013. I had always wanted children and was very excited to start this new chapter of my life. If only I had known it wasn’t going to be that easy! During our first month of trying I was so happy when aunt flo decided not to make her scheduled appearance. I couldn’t believe we had be lucky enough to get pregnant on our first attempt. However my joy quickly changed to confusion when every pregnancy test came up negative. The next month cam around. Still no period. Still no positive pregnancy test. I was so confused. I decided something wasn’t write and I needed to see a doctor. I went to the doctor who preformed an ultrasound. No baby!
Following this my doctor performed several scans and blood tests and confirmed I had polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS). I was devastated as I knew this meant it would be harder for us to conceive. We were given 6 rounds of clomid (a drug to stimulate your ovaries to induce ovulation). It worked, and I ovulated on the drugs, but unfortunately we did not manage to conceive. The clomid was stopped and we were told to try on our own for a further 6 months. By this time we had already been trying for 10 months. Then it happened…
Finally after 14 months of trying I was staring at two pink lines on a hpt. I couldn’t believe it was finally happening. I woke my husband to check the test and ensure I wasn’t seeing things. He agreed two lines. I took another test (by this time I’d amassed quite a stockpile) and there was no denying it, two pink lines, I was definitely pregnant. Father’s day, 15th June 2014, was officially one of the best days of my life. We thought after 14 difficult months, the hard times were over.
My husband and I were over the moon, we were making plans for a new little baby, arguing over names, clearing out the spare room etc. We were in our little expectant parents’ bubble. Devastatingly that bubble burst. Sunday evening I got out of the bath and felt a leaking sensation, it was blood. Thick, dark, red blood. I was petrified and we got straight in the car, off to A&E. They did some tests and decided to send me to a larger hospital with specialist staff to investigate. I was really worried but the bleeding was stopping and I wasn’t in any pain. Surely if something was wrong I’d be in pain, right? By the time I was seen at the hospital the bleeding had stopped and the doctor could not see any other worrying signs. I was sent home and told to come back on Tuesday morning for a scan. Tuesday, 15th July, slowly came round and I had had no more bleeding so was hoping everything was ok. After an agonising wait, it was finally our turn. The sonographer was very quite, but I could see her taking lots of measurements. Then she grabbed my hand and my heart sunk. ‘I’m so sorry but I can’t find a heartbeat’. Those words just rang in my head as the tears slowly fell done my face. We spoke to a nurse but nothing sunk in. We were heartbroken. Why us? What had I done wrong? It’s not fair!
We tried to dust ourselves off and started trying again straight away, I think it gave us something to focus on. I was desperate to be pregnant again, to not feel empty. I thought if I got pregnant before my due date then I could somehow try to make sense of what had happened. The end of the year was nearing and our February due date was growing ever closer and still no pregnancy. So, back to the doctors we went to be dealt another hard blow, I wasn’t ovulating again. Back on the clomid again for 3 months. 3 months of ovulation but no pregnancy. My due date came and went and still no pregnancy.
That pretty much bring us to where we are today. Our doctor has decided to refer us to a specialist and we have our first appointment later this month. I’m excited, as after 2 years ttc, I feel like we are moving forward and getting that one step closer to having our take home baby.